{"id":115,"date":"2021-12-03T19:52:32","date_gmt":"2021-12-03T19:52:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/?p=115"},"modified":"2022-08-20T09:59:04","modified_gmt":"2022-08-20T09:59:04","slug":"overcoming-speech-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/2021\/12\/03\/overcoming-speech-anxiety\/","title":{"rendered":"Overcoming Speech Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>CC BY ND Jason Sanchez Rojas<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is something about a large crowd that gets alot of people anxious when talking. We all have to speak in front of large groups at some point in our lives. Whether that be for a school assignment, giving your boss and colleagues ideas at work, or something as simple as speaking to your family at dinner on holidays. I personally struggle with this and I want to give people the tips and advice they need to overcome their speech anxiety <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3656855-1024x615.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-117\" width=\"403\" height=\"242\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3656855-1024x615.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3656855-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3656855-768x462.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3656855-1536x923.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3656855-2048x1231.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3656855-1200x721.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 403px) 85vw, 403px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This might sounds silly to come but honestly just <em><strong>fake it til you make it.<\/strong> <\/em>This is a great technique I was taught by friends and therapists&#8217; of mine. If you tell yourself everything will be ok and you got everything under control, even when you feel like you don&#8217;t, your brain will think you actually do have everything under control which leads you to feeling confident in actuality. I use this technique when I am about to present a slideshow, about to perform a concert, or trying to talk to someone. I repeat to myself &#8220;you got this&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;m that guy&#8221; &#8220;THEY NOT READY FOR THIS&#8221; and those phrases help me through large group settings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another way I combat my anxiety is that I listen to my favorite music. I personally can&#8217;t deal with my anxiety in silence and I need something in the background to help clear my head. Having my favorite songs playing helps me clear my mind on what is making me anxious and I just focus on the words and sing alot at times. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-kaboompics-com-6320-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-118\" width=\"434\" height=\"289\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-kaboompics-com-6320-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-kaboompics-com-6320-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-kaboompics-com-6320-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-kaboompics-com-6320-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-kaboompics-com-6320-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/files\/2021\/12\/pexels-kaboompics-com-6320-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 434px) 85vw, 434px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>  I am positive that if you follow what I do, you will find yourself being less anxious for large crowds and will have  a positive outlook on your speech. Being anxious is a normal feeling to have and I can assure you everyone feels anxious at something in their lives.  And I can also assure you that some people in the crowd will admire your strenght to come on stage. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CC BY ND Jason Sanchez Rojas There is something about a large crowd that gets alot of people anxious when talking. We all have to speak in front of large groups at some point in our lives. Whether that be for a school assignment, giving your boss and colleagues ideas at work, or something as &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/2021\/12\/03\/overcoming-speech-anxiety\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Overcoming Speech Anxiety&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":339,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"portfolio_post_id":0,"portfolio_citation":"","portfolio_annotation":"","openlab_post_visibility":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-public-speaking"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/339"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=115"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":310,"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115\/revisions\/310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unewhavendh.org\/communication-toolkit\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}